Modern Stone Age Family

Are setting up our "kids" to live in a place that is of rocks, and stones?

Some might remember this: Flintstone's meet the Flintstone's ...they are the modern stone age family, you know from the town of Bedrock, they are that place right out of history. I heard that history repeats itself.
Yes, Shelley but this is just a cartoon show, right? Yes but how people today insist on casting stones, whether they live within this country or without, they seem to let it all hang out, with every type of attitude of defiance possible. Even the costumes seen from that very show seem to indicate a representation of the things Wilma Flintstone and Betty Rubble wore are seen in some who entertain like the music industry in today's culture. Yikes!


Jesus came to roll the stones away! He came to move people out of the dust bowl society and stone throwing to set captives free. He came to show us what we needed to be set free from!

John 11:17-44………NKJV ……...17 So when Jesus came, He found that he had already been in the tomb four days. 18 Now Bethany was near Jerusalem, about two miles away. 19 And many of the Jews had joined the women around Martha and Mary, to comfort them concerning their brother. 20 Then Martha, as soon as she heard that Jesus was coming, went and met Him, but Mary was sitting in the house.

21 Then Martha said to Jesus, "Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died. 22 But even now I know that whatever You ask of God, God will give You." 23 Jesus said to her, "Your brother will rise again." 24 Martha said to Him, "I know that he will rise again in the resurrection at the last day." 25 Jesus said to her, "I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live. 26 And whoever lives and believes in Me shall never die. Do you believe this?" 27 She said to Him, "Yes, Lord, I believe that You are the Christ, the Son of God, who is to come into the world."   

28 And when she had said these things, she went her way and secretly called Mary her sister, saying, "The Teacher has come and is calling for you." 29 As soon as she heard that, she arose quickly and came to Him. 30 Now Jesus had not yet come into the town, but was in the place where Martha met Him. 31 Then the Jews who were with her in the house, and comforting her, when they saw that Mary rose up quickly and went out, followed her, saying, "She is going to the tomb to weep there."

 32 Then, when Mary came where Jesus was, and saw Him, she fell down at His feet, saying to Him, "Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died." 33 Therefore, when Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who came with her weeping, He groaned in the spirit and was troubled. 34 And He said, "Where have you laid him?" They said to Him, "Lord, come and see." 35 Jesus wept. 36 Then the Jews said, "See how He loved him!" 37 And some of them said, "Could not this Man, who opened the eyes of the blind, also have kept this man from dying?"

38 Then Jesus, again groaning in Himself, came to the tomb. It was a cave, and a stone lay against it. 39 Jesus said, "Take away the stone." Martha, the sister of him who was dead, said to Him, "Lord, by this time there is a stench, for he has been dead four days."

40 Jesus said to her, "Did I not say to you that if you would believe you would see the glory of God?" 41 Then they took away the stone from the place where the dead man was lying.

And Jesus lifted up His eyes and said, "Father, I thank You that You have heard Me. 42 And I know that You always hear Me, but because of the people who are standing by I said this, that they may believe that You sent Me." 43 Now when He had said these things, He cried with a loud voice, "Lazarus, come forth!" 44 And he who had died came out bound hand and foot with grave clothes, and his face was wrapped with a cloth. Jesus said to them, "Loose him, and let him go."  

There were many things going on in this region when Lazarus had died. And two women had wondered why Jesus had not appeared. Each had a response about meeting Him.

First we find Martha speaking this from John 11: 21 Then Martha said to Jesus, "Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died. 22 But even now I know that whatever You ask of God, God will give You." 23 Jesus said to her, "Your brother will rise again." 24 Martha said to Him, "I know that he will rise again in the resurrection at the last day." 25 Jesus said to her, "I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live. 26 And whoever lives and believes in Me shall never die. Do you believe this?" 27 She said to Him, "Yes, Lord, I believe that You are the Christ, the Son of God, who is to come into the world."   

Martha knew of the resurrection on the last day, and when she ran to meet Jesus, she did not bow before Him. Did she not notice He carried the very presence of God?

Next we look at Mary: John 11: 32 Then, when Mary came where Jesus was, and saw Him, she fell down at His feet, saying to Him, "Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died." 33 Therefore, when Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who came with her weeping, He groaned in the spirit and was troubled. 34 And He said, "Where have you laid him?" They said to Him, "Lord, come and see." 35 Jesus wept. 36 Then the Jews said, "See how He loved him!" 37 And some of them said, "Could not this Man, who opened the eyes of the blind, also have kept this man from dying?"

Oh yes, Jesus certainly love them and loves them today! Jesus spoke with Mary and she too gave a response to His arrival>>>>.. "Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died."

Sooner or later we must move out of the stone age where stones are thrown at people and live in faith as the Lord has directed us to live. Mary knelt at the presence of God in Jesus. Can you see the difference?

People today put their children in a place of bondage trying to keep them so to speak in a safe environment, and yet create places that only bring the grown child into rejection and in some cases abandonment. For most it is represented by the "fear factor"!

People so fear for their children they will not allow them to get a driver's license just because of a health issue, will not allow them to get job because of health issue, but the same parent's will give the child a front row seat as to where the parent wants the child to go. Where the parent decides best suits the parent without regard for the child that they are human, created by God and should not be kept as pets!  Children in some cases are caged like an animal. They are caged by words of the parent's pride when they implement themselves as judge and jury over every and all situations in regards to the child or children.

I speak from experience for my husband and I had done that at one time. Our daughter had been diagnosed with asthma at the age of eight. And it seemed like over time working to keeping all the meds and her health in check for good was in itself another job for me to do. Although my husband was present, still I was the "person" who worried. Not a good thing to do! 

But like my husband said when our daughter was about to turn 15 that we had to allow her to live. She wanted to work and we let her work as long as her grades remained really good. And they did! We allowed her the great privilege of getting her license  to drive a car and learn some responsibility of taking care of herself in that weapon called an automobile. She learned to care for the engine under the hood. She learned how to work with others, draw a paycheck and become a responsible individual. She grew from a child, to a teenager to a young adult. She attended college and got her degree. She also continued to work and not live off others. So also learned from God's word how to put His truth at the place where asthma had been spoken. 

If we are creating danger zones for our kids demanding they obey us as we know more about their sickness, their dilemma, then we are limiting God, and danger for the child or teen!

Every decision should only occur when the truth of God is revealed !  For they should have known how to be responsible by taking out the trash at age eight. They should know how to wash a dish if they dirty one. They should know they must work if they desire to eat. They should know how to sort clothing to wash by their high school years.

But alas, some people resort to creating their lives over again in their children. I hope we are not doing that ever. Our children should live for that life God intended and not by some Mama's rule or Daddy's rule that they the child cannot do something because they are diabetic or they have heart issues, they are autistic or they have or were born premature and weakly and must take life at a gentle pace of motion and movement through their life without disrupting anyone else or anything else.

Jesus certainly disrupted the religious folk of His day and they were casting stones in that day. They wanted to push Him on a cliff....yeah, some people, right?

If a parent, then we should know that our child or children are not separated from the love of Christ. He came to give His life for them. And to prevent them from learning something of life at the different ages then at age 21 we  then wonder why they are still at home, why are they not holding a job and they still desire to be with us every moment of every day. Because they were not allowed to see through God's eyes that which God intended because Mama or Daddy said!

They were kept from driving a car, dating and working. Kept from really reaching their full potential because of Mama's or Daddy' fear factor for life. Like daddy left us when we were babies, and Mama died when we were 12 or 14 years of age. Then the person now raises their kids in same manner....to repeat history of daddy leaving, Mama dying and abandonment.

Because if the child is not taught a real structure that is of God, the stones will crumble. The foundation is not strong, and the child becoming an adult will now resent the Mama who wants to put them out, resent and will feel abandoned by the Mama's or Daddy's doing.

Father , who can separate us from the love of Christ? Can trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? No, in all these things we are more than a conqueror through Him who loves us (Romans 8:35,37)

 Lord, may our children not be conformed to our image but YOUR'S. In our act of spiritual worship, You call us to not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, not to the modern stone age family, no, you call us to be transformed by the renewing of our minds. That we will be able to test and approve what Your will is. Your good, pleasing and perfect will is for us to know. (Romans 12:1-2

Father, today I pray for parents who have teenage children to repent of their ways that is far from You and may they receive wisdom how their children should be supported to go out as adults and live for God. For Your Word tells us that anyone who trusts in You will never be put to shame. (Romans 10:11)

Father may we always receive the Message, but Your Message is better than anything. May we run after Your truth, and seek You while You may be found. Though we are in the world we are not of it! The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have power to demolish strongholds. Your power can demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of You, God and take captive every thought and make it obedient to Christ. (2 Corinthians 10:3-5) Enable us Lord! Help us not just to read it and say it, but believe it and do it! Amen!!

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We Must Always Know our Position

Have you ever heard those say, " the baby turned one year old today and everyone is ecstatic about her birthday and everyone is coming to see her take those steps around the room?"
I had heard that recently, and wondered if we ever give thought to those around us, and if they are still growing and changing. You know the adults we have known for years, are they still growing?
My thoughts of course are on those who have the Lord as Savior.
We are to be committed to life long change and that is by seeing we grow in the Word of God and in prayer.

Change will always come, and are we equipped to take the next step into tomorrow?

Back to the baby issue now. People are excited to see the baby's first step and to hear their first verbal sound. Although both parents would quip that the baby just said "mommy" or "daddy"and they speak at the same time. A laughable moment maybe, but do we as the disciples of Jesus continue to grow up.

1 Samuel 2:18-21………..18 But Samuel ministered before the LORD, even as a child, wearing a linen ephod. 19 Moreover his mother used to make him a little robe, and bring it to him year by year when she came up with her husband to offer the yearly sacrifice. 20 And Eli would bless Elkanah and his wife, and say, "The LORD give you descendants from this woman for the loan that was lent to the LORD." Then they would go to their own home. 21 And the LORD visited Hannah, so that she conceived and bore three sons and two daughters. Meanwhile the child Samuel grew before the LORD. NKJV

You remember Hannah, right? She was the woman who shared her husband with another woman. Elkanah had two wives. But he was very loving and caring toward Hannah. In all this tribulation that only a man could invite into his home, surely Hannah stood by the grace of God to see the victory.

She was the woman who had no children as her womb was closed. Now for whatever reason, certainly Hannah did not linger on the abusive words that Peninnah had probably spoken to her about her inability to have children. Yet, Hannah kept her focus on the Lord in prayer. It was in 1 Samuel 1:10 that Hannah prayed to the Lord.

Moving on in the scripture we find that Samuel ministered before the LORD. Even as a child, he came to learn the life of a priest before the Lord.  His mother Hannah continued to make robes for him to wear. Year after year, she would make a new robe for him to wear. She gave her first child to the Lord, and she continued to show her love and compassion as the caring mother.

Each time Hannah made the trip to Shiloh, Eli would bless Elkanah and his wife Hannah. "The LORD give you descendants from this woman for the loan that was lent to the LORD." That loan was of course Samuel. And the scripture tells us he grew before the LORD.

Are we like Hannah and ready to keep "our cool" when abusive words come to us? What if someone does not like you at school or work?  In studying this scripture, I always wonder how Hannah kept "her cool" when knowing her husband invited another woman into their home. I wonder how she slept at night and worked throughout the day to see this "other woman and her children thriving" and Hannah had only her husband. Did Hannah have a "dream" for the future? Did she see her life different and a life filled with children and laughter? Yet, Hannah kept her focus on the Lord! Do we do as much in situations that arise? Do we keep our eyes on the Lord of glory and expect a victory when all hell seems to break loose against us?

Do we continue to make a commitment to the Lord for His goodness and His word of power for our lives or do we retreat to compete for that recliner in the family room that we regard as "our comfort zone"?

Do we seek out our own plan, and keep the T.V. in eye view so we do not make any decisions for change that we must make?

I write to say, you are not the only one who must make changes. We all have to keep to the right course to end up where we are going on this journey.

I think of those who fly planes. They must make a flight plan and set the right course. While in the air they must be periodically keeping eye on the planes course and continually adjust the course to keep going in the same direction. We too must keep our course set. We must keep the course the Lord has set before us. We just need to ask Him about keeping us on the course of life and not that of destruction.

It will always come back to our abiding to His will for us. WE MUST ALWAYS KNOW OUR POSITION!

GOD, WHAT IS THE RIGHT COURSE ADJUSTMENT FOR US TODAY? WE DESIRE TO BE POSITIONED IN YOU!

SET YOUR COURSE WITH THOSE WHO WILL SEE THE POTENTIAL IN YOU.

PURSUE PEOPLE WHO SEE WHERE YOU ARE GOING AND NOT FROM WHERE YOU CAME FROM.

WHAT ASSOCIATIONS DO WE NEED TO CHANGE?

FIND THOSE WHO WILL ENCOURAGE YOU ALONG THE WAY! THEY WILL BE THOSE WHO ALWAYS SEND YOU ON YOUR WAY WITH WORDS THAT PRODUCE LIFE IN YOU. 

LEAVE THE DEAD BEHIND, SEEK THE LAND OF THE LIVING AND RUN WITH THE "DREAM" THAT GOD HAS GIVEN YOU!

Father, today I pray for those who read this to have the purpose right before their eyes. I pray that they will see and know without a doubt YOU are in their midst. I pray these will have the right people surround them and speak encouragement and life. I pray that YOU our Father God will send intercessors into their lives. I ask for helpers for each of these people, those who will willingly come alongside them and walk this life journey with them.

Father, You are the strategic God and I ask YOU to strategically align each one praying this with the right people so they might move fully into the right thing YOU have planned for them from the foundation of the world.

Today, Lord, I believe each of these are those willing to continue to grow and become those world changers and history makers. I come against any plan of the enemy to distract and deter them from YOUR plan for them. I plead the Blood of Jesus over the portals of their minds, their wills and their emotions. I plead the Blood of Jesus over their walk with YOU and that they hear YOU guide them by the still small voice. Lord show them the great books, the great songs, the great sermons that are in them even now. And we give YOU glory and praise on this journey of life as we grow beginning those who YOU meant us to be in Jesus' name. Amen.

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