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Tuesday, October 26, 2021

Angels, Words, and Judgment

White Horse and Rider: Revelation 6..politics and vaccines

Psalm 91 NKJV
He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty.

Almighty: El Shadday

1.   Seen in Genesis 17:1 ( Abram called out); Exodus 6:3

2.   Meaning the unconquerable; God’s greatness in strength or His everlasting nature

Psalm 91:2 I will say of the LORD, “He is my refuge and my fortress; My God, in Him I will trust.”

3 Surely He shall deliver you from the snare of the fowler and from the perilous pestilence. 4 He shall cover you with His feathers, and under His wings you shall take refuge; His truth shall be your shield and buckler. 5 You shall not be afraid of the terror by night, nor of the arrow that flies by day, 6 nor of the pestilence that walks in darkness, nor of the destruction that lays waste at noonday.

7 A thousand may fall at your side, and ten thousand at your right hand; but it shall not come near you. 8 Only with your eyes shall you look, and see the reward of the wicked”

9 “ Because you have made the LORD, who is my refuge, Even the Most High your dwelling place, 10 No evil shall befall you, nor shall any plague come near your dwelling; 11 For He shall give His angels charge over you, to keep you in all your ways.

12 “In their hands they shall bear you up, Lest you dash your foot  against a stone, 13 You shall tread upon the lion and the cobra, the young lion and the serpent you shall trample underfoot.”

14 “Because he has set his love upon Me, there will I deliver him. I will set him on high because he has known My name. 15 He shall call upon Me and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble; I will deliver him and honor him. 16 With long life I will satisfy him, and show him My salvation.”

 

 

In the Place of Trust: Confiding in God Who is to be our Refuge

1.   Dwelling place

2.   Dwelling together: as in marriage: that is we are counseled by Him, spend time hearing Him speak His words to us as we read it; loving that we have a place to go when the storm clouds gather, when things do not go as we thought they would and when health is not strong!

3.   In His mercy we have a continual flow of healing for our minds, our will, our emotions and our bodies.

4.   Pestilence from attacks like plagues (Zika virus or coronavirus) ; Ebola virus in Africa

5.   Angels can strike a person: Acts 12:23 for Herod did not give glory to God; angel stood by Peter in prison …struck him on the side or awaken him

Reminded that God takes no pleasure in wickedness:

Psalm 5:3-7 My voice You shall hear in the morning, O LORD; in the morning I will direct it to You. 4 For You are not a God who takes pleasure in wickedness, nor shall evil dwell with YOU. 5 The boastful shall not stand in Your sight; You hate all workers of iniquity. 6 You shall destroy those who speak falsehood; the LORD abhors the blood thirsty and deceitful man. 7 but as for me, I will come into Your house in the multitude of Your mercy; in fear of You will worship toward Your holy temple.

 

1.   Worship toward His holiness: His righteousness

2.   Haggai 2:15-19 NKJV ‘And now carefully consider from this day forward; from before stone was laid upon stone in the temple of the LORD----16 ‘since those days, when one came to a heap of twenty ephahs, there were but ten; when one came to the wine vat to draw out fifty baths from the press, there were but twenty. 18 consider now from this day of the ninth month, from the day that the foundation of the LORD’S temple was laid----consider it: 19 ‘Is the seed still in the barn?’ As yet the vine, the fig tree, the pomegranate and the olive tree have not yielded fruit.

But from this day I will bless you.’” ….walking in righteousness toward God

3.   God’s unmerited favor toward us …we have sanctuary

4.   In this work God has called us to is this: that it is to be the priority that it is seeing the foundation laid in everyday living; and within that the Lord’s blessings begin to flow in and through our lives.

Jesus gave His angels charge over us: Psalms 91:9-16

1.   Nothing shall hurt the believer: though trouble &  affliction come .shall not come to harm him

2.   Rightly knowing God: we will set our love Him and not on things

3.   They will pray constantly with fervency reminding Him of their walk with Him

4.   The Promises of God will flow from the believer’s heart: Luke 4:3-4 NKJV 3 & the devil said to Him, “if You are the Son of God, command this stone to become bread.” 4 But Jesus answered him, saying, “It is written, ‘Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word of God.’”

5.   We are to continually look up: not to the situation or the bad report, but look up and see who walked out of the tomb….the tomb of defeat to victory and gave us a new life in HIM!

6.   We speak God’s word & the angels carry out what the spoken word is meant to do! Psalm 103:20 bless the LORD, all you His hosts, You ministers of His who do His pleasure.

7.   Angels serve to bless (worship  & serve God), to do His word on Earth, heed His voice, minister as prescribed in Hebrews 1:14 and they willing do God’s pleasure.

8.   Heb. 1:14 Are they not all ministering spirits sent forth to minister for those who will inherit salvation? Angels revolve around the ministry of the church Jesus established. They advance His ministry on earth as it is in heaven.

Psalm 91:12: 12 “In their hands they shall bear you up, Lest you dash your foot  against a stone, 13 You shall tread upon the lion and the cobra, the young lion and the serpent you shall trample underfoot.”

1.   Luke 4:9-12 NKJV 9 Then he brought Him to Jerusalem, set Him on the pinnacle of the temple and said to Him, “If You are the Son of God, throw Yourself down from here.” 10”For it is written: He shall give His angels charge over you, to keep you,’ 11” and, in their hands they shall bear you up, lest you dash your foot against a stone.” 12 And Jesus answered and said to him, “it is has been said, ‘You shall not tempt the LORD your God.’

2.   Deuteronomy 6:16-20,23, 25 NKJV 16 You shall not tempt the LORD your God as you tempted Him in Massah. 17 “You shall diligently keep the commandments of the LORD your God, His testimonies and His statutes which He has commanded you, 18 And you shall do what is right and good in the sight of the LORD, that it may be well with you, and you may go in to possess the good land of which the LORD swore to your fathers, 19 to cast out all your enemies from before you, as the LORD has spoken. 20 “When your son asks you in time to come, saying, ‘What is the meaning of the testimonies, the statutes, and the judgments of which the LORD our God has commanded you?”

3.   23 then He brought us out from there, that He might bring us in, to give us the land of which He sword to our fathers.  25 then it will be righteousness for us , if we are careful to observe all these commandments before the LORD our God, as He has commanded us.


Psalm 78:40-53  NKJV 40 How often they provoked Him in the wilderness, and grieved Him in the desert! 41 Yes, again and again they tempted God, and limited the Holy One of Israel.

1.   Tempted :trying to test God; checking to see how God will respond;But we are reminded by David who asked God to test David’s own heart.

2.   It is not right for man to test God; doing that is limiting God and His power in our lives

3. People today in prayer will tell God how to answer their prayer. They are set to give details to Him in how to respond to their dilemma!

42 Yes, again & again they tempted God, & limited the Holy One of Israel. 42 They did not remember His power; the day when He redeemed them from the enemy, 43 when He worked His signs in Egypt, & His wonders in the field of Zoan; 44 Turned their rivers into blood, & their streams, that they could not drink. 45 He sent swarms of flies among them, which devoured them, & frogs which destroyed them. 46 He also gave their crops to the caterpillar, & their labor to the locust. 47 He destroyed their vines with hail, & their sycamore trees with frost. 48 He also gave up their cattle to the hail, & their flocks to fiery lightning. 49 He cast on them the fierceness of His anger, wrath, indignation & trouble, By sending angels of destruct among them.  50 He made a path for His anger; He did not spare their soul from death, but gave their life over to the plague, 51 & destroyed all the firstborn in Egypt, the first of their strength in the tents of Ham, 52 But HE made His own people go forth like sheep, & guided them in the wilderness like a flock; 53 & He led them safely so that they did not fear; but the sea overwhelmed their enemies.

1.   Remembering when God redeemed us; the day we repented and received salvation

2.   We are not overwhelmed by enemies and not certainly not to a "cult" in vaccines! The apostles to the mandates of a cult always teach to follow their whim into that existence. But Jesus brought us peace in Him and not in some drug!

 

Jesus Spoke this: Matthew 26:53-56  KJV 53 Thinkest thou that I cannot now pray to my Father, and he shall presently give me more than twelve legions of angels? 54 But how then shall the scriptures be fulfilled, that thus it must be?  55 In that same hour said Jesus to the multitudes, Are ye come out as against a thief with swords and staves for to take me? I sat daily with you teaching in the temple, and ye laid no hold on me.

56 But all this was done, that the scriptures of the prophets might be fulfilled. Then all the disciples forsook him, and fled.

Yes, the disciples broke and run when the enemy appeared in the Garden! They came to take Jesus away. And that is how the enemy works today, he comes into your quiet home and speaks thoughts that he believes we will take and run! Remember those flaming arrows: we can stop them with God's word!


Luke 24:18-29 KJV 18 And the one of them, whose name was Cleopas, answering said unto him, Art thou only a stranger in Jerusalem, and hast not known the things which are come to pass there in these days?   19 And he said unto them, What things? And they said unto him, Concerning Jesus of Nazareth, which was a prophet mighty in deed and word before God and all the people:  20 And how the chief priests and our rulers delivered him to be condemned to death, and have crucified him.  21 But we trusted that it had been he which should have redeemed Israel: and beside all this, today is the third day since these things were done.

22 Yea, and certain women also of our company made us astonished, which were early at the sepulchre; 23 And when they found not his body, they came, saying, that they had also seen a vision of angels, which said that he was alive.  24 And certain of them which were with us went to the sepulchre, and found it even so as the women had said: but him they saw not.    25 Then he said unto them, O fools, & slow of heart to believe all that the prophets have spoken: 26 Ought not Christ to have suffered these things, & to enter into his glory?  27 & beginning at Moses & all the prophets, he expounded unto them in all the scriptures the things concerning himself. 28 & they drew nigh unto the village, whither they went: & he made as though he would have gone further.  29 But they constrained him, saying, Abide with us: for it is toward evening, & the day is far spent & he went in to tarry with them.

1.   The righteous can see angels and can hear them

2.   These people had thought for Jesus whom they loved & sought to know where He was at

 

Angels Minister to Those Who Speak God’s Word: Matthew 4:1 1 then the devil left Him and behold, angels came and ministered to Him. (also seen in Luke 4)

1.   Angels: angelos: (ang-e-loss) spiritual heavenly attendants ..see Psalm 104:4, Luke 1:19

2.   Functioning as ministers of the Lord sent to Earth

3.   They execute His purposes and make them known to men. Daniel 10:12 Gabriel appeared to Daniel “ I have come because of your words”


What words do we speak? Are they the words Jesus spoke to His disciples? Do we keep a watchfulness over what comes out of our mouths?

In our call to the kingdom that is come, we repent, and believe with a trust in God that He will fulfill His promises. Jesus came to save the “lost” and that was us, but we now must reach others understanding that by prayer and speaking God’s truth that angels are hearing and will go with that word of God and God will see it accomplished to where it is sent. Amen!


More important words are given in Revelation:  Revelation 3:12 NKJV   12 He who overcomes, I will make him a pillar in the temple of My God, and he shall go out no more. I will write on him the name of My God and the name of the city of My God, the New Jerusalem, which comes down out of heaven from My God. And I will write on him My new name.

Anyone want to stand as a pillar within your home, within your community in the land of which you live and abide?

 Revelation 3:21 NKJV  21 To him who overcomes I will grant to sit with Me on My throne, as I also overcame and sat down with My Father on His throne.

These are to warn and yes remind that which is important to Christ, that at the end, pressures will mount. What was a mild year some five years ago is now mounting to the more intense, turn up the heat, forces are raging and not all of it is for good but for evil. Today, we can clearly see that Satan is lining up all of his forces, all of his armies, all of his weaponry yes, to persecute those in Christ Jesus. And this persecution will be to such an extent that the whole earth will be thrown into convulsions, the likes of which this world has never seen!

Even today, we remark we have never seen anything like it! Where are the voices who stand with Christ Jesus in this hour?

 

Christ, our Shepherd and like any good leader who sees what is coming, will take steps to prepare His people. He will focus their attention on what is most important to survive and grow during that period. This is why He talks about what He does to the churches in the messages in Revelation 2 and 3.

 Words spoken, given to prompt the hearer to do! Revelation 2:10 is to not fear. "Do not fear any of those things which you are about to suffer. Indeed, the devil is about to throw some of into prison, that you may be tested, and you will have tribulation ten days. Be faithful until death, and I will give you the crown of life. 11 He who has an ear, let him  hear what the Spirit says to the churches. He who overcomes shall not be hurt by the second death."

Revelation 2:5 "repent and do the first works, or else I will come to you quickly and remove your lamp-stand from its place-----unless you repent.

There are two fires, or two lights, that which is of the Lord and that which should be in us. But if we have lost our first love, then we should repent of losing that love for Him.

Revelation 2:16 "Repent, or else I will come to you quickly and will fight against them with the sword of My mouth. Yes, the sword of His mouth, His WORDS . Christ's words judge!!!

Revelation 2:25 BUT hold fast what you have till I come. 26 And he who overcomes and keeps My works until the end, to him I will give power over the nations-----

The over-comer will share in Christ's triumph over evil and evildoers. Jesus will begin His messianic rule and we can be seated with Him!

Revelation 3:2 to be watchful and strengthen the things which remain, that are ready to die, for I have not found your works perfect before God.

Revelation 3:3 ...hold fast and repent. therefore if you will not watch, I will come upon you as a thief and you will not know what hour I will come upon you.

Again those from Revelation 3:12 and 3:21!

Revelation 3:12 NKJV   12 He who overcomes, I will make him a pillar in the temple of My God, and he shall go out no more. I will write on him the name of My God and the name of the city of My God, the New Jerusalem, which comes down out of heaven from My God. And I will write on him My new name.

 Revelation 3:21 NKJV  21 To him who overcomes I will grant to sit with Me on My throne, as I also overcame and sat down with My Father on His throne.

These are to warn and yes remind that which is important to Christ as He watches over us!


Titus 1:16 says, "They profess to know God, but in works they deny Him, being abominable, disobedient, and disqualified." Titus 2:1 But as for you, speak the things which are proper for sound doctrine: 2 that the older men be sober, reverent, temperate, sound in faith, in love, in patience; 3 the older women likewise, that they be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things----

( never understand how those who divide the thought within the Bible, but verse 16 goes with Titus 2:1)

Where is the heart is in what they "profess"? But Christ knows what we are doing. I know your works. Does the heart profess loyalty to Christ? Are they proving to be the conscientious and faithful?

 

Many believe that we do not have to qualify for the Kingdom of God. It is true that works cannot justify us; they cannot wipe out our sins. However, it does not follow that, because they cannot save us, they are of no importance. Recall that James uses Abraham, the father of the faithful—the father of the loyal, the conscientious—as the illustration that faith without works is dead! Living faith works! Jesus says, "I know your works"!

 Of all that is written, specifically in the New Testament, Revelation 2 and 3 are the examination of our works. And in that examination, is it revealing a love for Christ in our words, in that which appears as unto the Lord in what we are doing. Colossians 3:23 And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men. 

It should sound like those words Christ spoke about His believers: that we are salt and light, that we hear Him, and know that the Holy Spirit is with us to guide us and tell us things to come. For certainly Matthew 5:21-30 reveals that murder begins in the heart as does adultery. As marriage is sacred and binding to a couple being wed together as husband and wife, no other should enter into this relationship other than the Lord himself. And in marriage, one should be going that extra mile when one spouse is sickened or close to death. If a spouse has compelled his wife to work, then no one is to come between what the husband speaks. Within all this, we are to love our enemies and pray for them. Still those we pray for seem to be failing greatly, but God is forever God and He is faithful! We walk, we pray, and we continue to place our hope in His word and His strength and not in angels. We speak words of faith and believe them to come to pass. We keep going because Jesus is life to us!

Revelation 2 and 3 are an examination of our works because Christ wants to see whether we believe Him! Living faith exhibits itself in works! It is a test of our faith. If we are faithful, we will be working: overcoming Satan, the world, and our self-centeredness. That is what works accomplish.

Words propel you either toward life or to death! There are great lights: the sun, the moon, the stars, but there is the light of Christ and in us, we should be blazing a trail of His words so others will know about Him, and want to hear what He has spoken. It is a choice for right words and in those right words we are directed into the light of Christ and glory of the Father. Words of truth will always light up the world to see the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ! May we participate speaking words that reveal where our heart resides to His praise and to His glory! Amen!


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Wednesday, March 20, 2019

ENGAGED



Christ and His Church
Matthew 22:37-40  NKJV  37 Jesus said to him, "'You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.' 38 This is the first and great commandment.  39  And the second is like it: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' 40  On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets."

Jesus told us two principles: love toward God (Deut. 6:5) and love toward our neighbor (Leviticus 19:18) In remembering those early years of Sunday School and our Mrs. Taylor, I remember the love she spoke with when referring us back to the commandments of God. I remember how she gave Scripture and spoke of Moses walk up that mountain to wait diligently on God, to hear and carry down those wonderful words that God prepared for His people.
Mrs. Taylor would take those commands of us and reveal the importance of them for our lives. In those listed as the first four, we find the “relationship’ with God and the last six commands dealt with yes, the relationship with “the fellow man”.

For those who find friendship engaging, will find devotion time with God like a real workout indeed! Finding that time, yes the quiet, is sometimes hard to locate in any one day. Still to know someone, you must remove some things and people from your life to make room for the new person.

In coming into a major year of marriage UNION for my husband and myself, I find I still seem to know so little of him. I ask questions and even ask what I might should know of what would be on his mind for that moment or day or what his day was actually like without trying to read his facial expressions.
Sometimes I can calculate by hearing his voice if it was a fruitful day for him and those around him.

 Relationship always involves other people. We find that in regard to the relationship of Christ and His church.
Revelation 21:1-4  Then I saw a new sky (heaven) and a new earth, for the former sky and former earth had passed away (vanished), and there no longer existed any sea. (Isa 65:17)  2 And I saw the holy city, the new Jerusalem, descending out of heaven from God, all arrayed like a bride beautified and adorned for her husband;  3 Then I heard a mighty voice from the throne and I perceived its distinct words, saying, saying, See! The abode of God is with men, and He will live (encamp, tent) among them; and they shall be His people and God shall personally be with them and be their God. (Ezekiel 37:27) 4 God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; and death shall be no more, neither shall there be anguish (sorrow and mourning) nor grief nor pain any more, for the old conditions and the former order of things have passed away. (Isaiah 25:8; Isaiah 35:10)


For us we are in the period preceding what we find in Revelation 19:7-9. Amplified Bible states: Let us rejoice and shout for joy[ exulting and triumphant]! Let us celebrate and ascribe to Him glory and honor, for the marriage of the Lamb [at last] has come, and His bride has prepared herself.  (Psalm 118:24)  8 She has been permitted to dress in fine (radiant) linen, dazzling and white-----for the fine linen is (signified, represents,) the righteousness (the upright, just and godly living, deeds and conduct and right standing with God) of the saints ( God’s holy people). 9 Then the [angel] said to me, Write this down: Blessed (happy, to be envied) are those who are summoned (invited ,called) to the marriage supper of the Lamb. And he said to me [further], these are the true words (the genuine & exact declarations) of God.

If I had to have had a regular time of meeting with the man I was betrothed to, would not we need the regular meeting time to get to know one another AS WITH CHRIST?
 Amos 3:3 asks the question, “Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?” YOU certainly have to meet with your betrothed more than once a week. Our meetings must take place often, especially in regard to the Husband to His Church.
I like the amplified Bible for this verse: Do two walk together except they make an appointment and have agreed?

In our own planning, my future husband was going away to start his education in this city. Fall rolled around and he was off!  So when the wedding date came around in the winter, all the plans were made, all things in place to be married and to make the final move to an area new to us both. We then had evenings together, meals to plan and future things to consider!

I know of married couples  and each still have their times out with their girl friends and the husband with his friends. Seems like it should be that which regards the marriage unit of a couple to meet with other couples, right? Each of us as an individual had come into a relationship where two are considered and not just one merely choosing their “free time” to be with friends or making plans for a trip with girl friends.

When I considered marriage, did I consider it a serious matter? Did I look at what we had together in fellowship and what topics we had enjoyed as “that couple”? Because as the New Year began, we began as the couple who assembled together for the ride to the grocery store, the ride over to the shopping center, we assembled together for entertainment and even paying taxes!
So in consideration that being the Church, being married to our Husband who is God, do we see the importance at the spiritual level to be a part of what is His plan?
For me, I can only speak of what I ask Him for those I am seeking to pray for….as early this morning and seeing some men in a dangerous place. I ask for His knowledge and how I might pray for them and then I prayed. I even got agreement with my husband for those men's safety in the workplace! When my husband is home  and we have our quiet time, we pray together, some evenings we have scripture that we read over and talk about. We have times while just taking a ride over the mountain & within conversation discover that we had the same conversations with God just the day before!

I am still learning much of my husband’s heart, his humor and his pain. I continue to ask him questions maybe when he is not ready, but in truth we expect to be a part of each other’s lives for a very long time. If we know eternity is on the line, will we seek that time to know Him even more?
I am thankful for Mrs. Taylor….may she rest in peace ……for I will see her lovely face and remind her one day of those important things she gave to me and my dad when we both sat before her in that Sunday School class! I will remind her of those important commands that we love God and we love our neighbor!




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Wednesday, February 24, 2016

A Family Affair

Genesis 1:1-6
1:1 In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. 2 The earth was without form, and void; and darkness was on the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God was hovering over the face of the waters. 3 Then God said, "Let there be light"; and there was light. 4 And God saw the light, that it was good; and God divided the light from the darkness. 5 God called the light Day, and the darkness He called Night. So the evening and the morning were the first day.
NKJV

Our Father God created. And it has continued to expand, for you and I continue to hear reports from NASA about another galaxy, and another planet like ours being spotted in the vast universe.
God said and it was so. And He called out LIGHT!

With light shining within our homes, what do we see?
What do we create for our families? What atmosphere do we create when no one is there, when no one is home? Are the beds made? Are the dishes done? How about a meal for that spouse? Or is he limited to the two meals a day and snack for evening, as a purposed plan for his eating habits today? Remember that weight thing has to be considered.

It tells us from the above scripture, that the earth was without form, void and darkness was on the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God was hovering over the face of the deep waters.
And then God spoke:"LIGHT!"

So when we have our beginning with God, do we ask for His light into the 1st part of our early morning time and if we do, what do we start with?
Hopefully it is in praying, asking the Holy Spirit to have His way in us and then move into worshiping the Lord and give voice to His Word by speaking it out!

In the days of "old" the people started on their days before the sun arose. There was water to get from a well or stream. There was wood to gather for a fire. Much activity could be heard, inside and outside of a dwelling place. Remember what might have been used to light a room.
Was it winter or was it summer time? The wife would be starting on the first meal of the day and it had to be a hearty one to get the husband off to do his duty of work for the day. Also in those days, the man worked with the wife to prepare for the family, prepare for the aged members who could no longer see to their needs. So everyone knew how to cook a meal on an open fire. Yes it was a family affair!

Today, much has changed, and I am not certain all for the good. Let God be the judge!
So which one would we embrace, which one do we look like, and which one will expand us in the right direction to make a difference for the kingdom of God?
For both will expand just as God's light has expanded. This whole world is based on that foundation He put into motion.

1st Scenario:
On rising on the 1st work day of week:
Husband works, wife works part-time,  two children, part-time family cat.
They rush around, one makes coffee, another makes sandwiches to fill paper bags. One or two yell at each other. Maybe one is kissed, door slams, and the house is empty!
Looks like Hurricane Sandy went through it! Making a quick walk through, one finds that place in upheaval.
No beds are made, dishes in the sink, pans on the stove, and clothes everywhere.Yikes!
The father gets home, dishes in the sink, pots and pans on the stove. Oh my! What's for dinner, who shopped?
Kids come in, not happy again.
Mom comes in to find everyone arguing, gazing around the room she sees the piles of stuff and nothing put away. Stumbling, and numb from her day, she grimaces at the noise escalating from the kitchen area. "Oh yes, I forgot to shop again."
There is more loud talking, one is sulking, then everyone complains they are "the hungry".
Still have to wash a pan or two, Mom is done. She has vacated the kitchen. She probably had to with no room to really stand in a space with both feet as the boots and shoes cluttered the walking area of the living room. Then she spots an empty box on the living room floor and oh yes, the seldom home cat is demanding something to eat as well! He is meowing loudly and rubbing against her pantsuit leg! Then she remembers speaking aloud, 'oh my", the "cat needs food".
She asks her husband did he not get work off early. He said of course, "it is Monday, right." " It was our bowling day."
She responds, "yes, but the market is right next door." He turns with a scowl and shrugs his shoulders to the "kids".
Dinner is something like ramen noodles. The kid's snubbed their noses at it. Both are off to bed with no dinner. The father kicks the boots out of his way, looks around the room and falls into his chair in front of the T.V.
Mother has gone in to shower and plans on going to bed. She makes a mental note: "PBJ for lunches:kids! She turns off the light!
Who put the kids to bed? Who helped?
When night is done, the day starts again.

2nd Scenario:
Rising on the 1st day of work week:
Husband works, wife works part-time and they have two children. And one dog!
Husband comes in after work to help with meal preparation. He stopped at the market for some special fixings to do up one of his famous burgers. Meats on the grill!
Kids come in from school, hang their jackets up, Mom is on her way home.
Dinner table set, mom arrives, dinner is on the table.
Mom had a meeting downtown and saw some adventure movies on sale and got a couple for the family to watch on "Family Night".

 Everyone eats. Dog looks for some kind of meat from the table. But alas, he returns to find his bowl full of dog munchies and his water bowl filled to the brim as well.
Dad and kids wash dishes, Mom prepares lunch boxes with sandwiches for the next day. She pours milk into thermos for the kid's, put in their favorite peanut butter cook with chocolate chips. Laughter is heard throughout the house.
Dad goes in to turn back the bed covers in the kids rooms for the kids. Mom checks how the bath is going for the younger child. "Is that too much bubble bath in the water?" She checks their clothes for school the next day, but knows she has no choice in what they will wear.
Dad helps the eldest kid with homework, it is some new "math".........and when done sends him off to think about their plans for Saturday for the whole family in the park for the big game of baseball.
Mother and Father visit: each child in their room, they pray, and tuck them in. The eldest complains, "ah, I am too old for that "kid stuff" dad!"
Mom and Dad smile and exit quietly........in the living room over a cup of tea, they
 talk about their day at work, check on their bank account, all bills paid, they go over any goals for the end of the year.
She tells him about some things at work and they pray together over the situation. They ask the Lord's direction for the day and week ahead.
She readies for bed, and he then follows. He checks to make sure all is in place. And that every door is locked is his final look at the security of his family. He prays over the family again, pleads the Blood of Jesus. Turns out the light!
When the night is done, the day starts again.

Seems scenario 2 would be the best solution for a thriving and growing family, yet I think the 1st is what a lot of people see and experience.

The important thing to remember is that our Father God created. And when He is in it, there is light, life, and a place to really thrive and grow in Him. It is joyous and maximizing the God- kind of life. It is ease when everything and everyone is in their place and fulfilling their roles.

Also understand this: both of these families know God. They have accepted Jesus as Lord. But only one family is truly living under the leadership of Jesus. The other is floundering!

Now this is really pointed or directed to the men who read this.
Since we are made in the image of God, we are to imitate Him and follow what He has written to us for our good.
Ephesians 5:1-2
5:1 Therefore be imitators of God as dear children. 2 And walk in love, as Christ also has loved us and given Himself for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling aroma.
NKJV

So husbands, what did you sacrifice for your family today? Did you shop for groceries? How about some special berries or chocolate for your wife?
Could you have done the dishes, put them away and have the counter ready to prepare another meal later?
God created the garden of Eden and he created man. He gave him the garden and gave him the animals to name. What a job, right? How many is there and how long did that take? I know it took about a day to come up with a name for our little poodle. You know that name has to fit!
But seriously, God gave Adam some jobs to do and it was TO take dominion in that garden and do it with a walk with the Father Who created him.



Genesis 2:18-25
18 And the LORD God said, "It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him." 19 Out of the ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field and every bird of the air, and brought them to Adam to see what he would call them. And whatever Adam called each living creature, that was its name. 20 So Adam gave names to all cattle, to the birds of the air, and to every beast of the field. But for Adam there was not found a helper comparable to him. 21 And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall on Adam, and he slept; and He took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh in its place. 22 Then the rib which the LORD God had taken from man He made into a woman, and He brought her to the man. 23 And Adam said:

"This is now bone of my bones
And flesh of my flesh;
She shall be called Woman,
Because she was taken out of Man."

24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. 25 And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.   NKJV


That helper is "ezer" (ay-zer) OT 5828...5826 .....aid, help....to succor
I like what the definition states:to provide with what is useful in achieving an end.
I think this one is amazing.........."and is liken to something that one does or gives to help another..........in a situation that is often difficult and can be one of suffering."

Remember that Adam came from the dust of the ground! He was a man of mind, will and emotions.
And then Eve came along. And they lived in a garden that God provided. It had every kind of tree and what beauty must have been in that garden!
Yes, she came along to help Adam in a situation. It might be something of a difficulty...........some hard work.........and even (Yikes) some suffering!
The helper---the helpmate---- had come to assist what Adam was doing. Well, he had named the animals........but what else.......well, he was to tend the garden........take dominion and rule!
But the serpent came in, and Adam was not taking his right in dominion. It was that chaos again........and much like Hurricane Sandy! It looks that way in the lives of families who are to be led by the Father, Helpmate Mother, children achieving an end that is useful.

 God said this in Genesis 3:16.........

Genesis 3:16
6 To the woman He said:

"I will greatly multiply your sorrow and your conception;
In pain you shall bring forth children;
Your desire shall be for your husband,
And he shall rule over you."  NKJV

When they had fallen from sin, they were given God's thoughts on their lives.
And He stated that Adam would rule over his wife Eve.
That word  " rule " is 4910 in the Strong's Greek/Hebrew definition.

It means to be in good condition. Even though they had now fallen into sin, God was stating, "Adam, your wife will be in good condition."

 In searching further, we find it means to "feast" together. It is to revel in each other's company! Dancing together through life seeing after the other's need. It was to be done in a joyful attitude, and done together............not husband on one rail of a train track and the wife on the other rail of a train track, never meeting together except to produce a child. Yikes!
I like what the Webster's Unabridged Dictionary says about ruling: to indulge without restraint.
What if they worked together without restraint.........not putting up signs...........like:" me Tarzan", " you Jane"?
What if they worked in union together as say 2nd Scenario family?

They were to work together in preparation...........an agreement of life together, working together for the meal preparations, preparing for child/children.........and moving forward in their lives that was achieving an end. Every member of that family would prosper when the head, followed Jesus, and kept his watch over his garden, his family. Each doing, learning and prospering in the doing: like cooking, like shopping, like working in the yard, like painting a fence and like cleaning a dirty toilet?


Did our Lord prepare fish for His disciples when He was the RESURRECTED? YES!

John 21:9-12
9 Then, as soon as they had come to land, they saw a fire of coals there, and fish laid on it, and bread. 10 Jesus said to them, "Bring some of the fish which you have just caught." 11 Simon Peter went up and dragged the net to land, full of large fish, one hundred and fifty-three; and although there were so many, the net was not broken. 12 Jesus said to them, "Come and eat breakfast."  NKJV

Wow! The man, the God from Heaven, Jesus Christ the Messiah, the Lord of Lords prepared fish!


In leading the home, the leader, the man, the husband is to lead in every area. The wife, a leader in that understanding that her husband still leads. She is to assist him in that which to give assistance, and often times be one of a difficult situation that has some suffering in it. Ah, but who is it that suffers?
Jesus got the fish to prepare and not for just a couple of the "guys"! No He held a feast for them with bread added!  It was to be one of joy, reveling as a dance together that Jesus was the RESURRECTED and was sending His disciples out to be "those fisher's of men"!



As the nurturer, both husband and wife are to nurture as God nurtures. The Garden God created, He designed for someone to oversee that garden. He had to care for it.
So too, the father of the family is to nurture his family. He is to brood over it as God does. He is to look to the future for those who will become his family. He is to talk about, but also do the things listed within the living quarters of the home. Today, families have a whole multitude of electronics and gadgets that help out in the cooking of meals, keeping in touch throughout the day, and also caring for those things of our mind, will and emotions.

Some families I have met over the years I recall the amount of effort a husband will do for the family when the mother becomes so ill that she requires help.
I remember one such woman I met back in Ranchester, Wy. many decades ago. What I saw, was a man who cleaned the house, bought the groceries and talked much with his ailing wife. She passed some five years later, but I remember that love he gave, the love he so vigilantly displayed that was without restraint. He had someone to come in to help with her meds and someone to help with the laundry. But he did the rest! And God bless his heart for the love that was displayed toward his wife.

In closing: If our days start out like "Croods" then we probably need lots of help. We would need lots of prayer time and not just five minutes a day. Let's see now, it has taken how many years to get in this condition? So, yes, it will take more than just a quick "5" minutes to get things right and in order.

What is it the Bible says........Romans 15:5-6
5 May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you a spirit of unity among yourselves as you follow Christ Jesus, 6 so that with one heart and mouth you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.  NIV

Our lives requires what we can bring to the table for others. If your son or daughter never sees you cook a meal, wash a dish or take out the trash, then why should they do it, right? If everything is done for them, then how will they be productive in their lives? You will either still be taking care of them when they turn 30 years old or you will have millions of dollars to pay out for the butler and the maid they will require!

My husband loved to take us out for a camping trip. His focus was to travel to the country, and generally the mountains was his preference and to prepare food. He was great at cooking out of doors and the food tasted so rich and delicious.
I believe he gave everything within him to be what God planned for him. He still loves to be outdoors and cook outside, but it is closer to the house. He showed our daughter what productivity meant. And in turn, both she and her husband are showing it to their own.
We truly want to be the family God created and that is to share all our experiences in living, in preparing food for another, help with math, praying with children at night, spending time at the park and paying bills takes team work. And when we work together..........love one another, without restraints, without the labels like "wife in the kitchen only" or "husband only brings in the bacon", or "housecleaning is woman's work", then we have missed the mark of what I believe God desires for His family to be. We must look back at what God spoke even when they were leaving the Garden of Eden..........and see what God purposed for Adam to do for his wife and his family.

Jesus came to serve. He was the true Servant! I have seen my husband do the same. In truth he does a better job at cleaning a bathroom than I ever did. He always tells me to leave something, so that he will do it when he gets home. And he does it. He makes a list to do for me and I am not to do them!  I have truly seen what the love of God can do and how it can cause a whole family to flourish. When it starts in our homes, it will invade the "church" the body of believer's where unity will prevail, Jesus will return, and we will be with Him, in His family without restraint! Amen.




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