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Friday, February 7, 2020

Do Not Accept or Approve that Which God Forbids

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Proverbs 10:14 Amplified Bible Wise men store up knowledge [in mind and heart], but the mouth of the foolish is a present destruction.
Proverbs 18:1-2 Amplified Bible He who willfully separates and estranges himself[ from God and man] seeks his own desire and pretext to break out against all wise and sound judgment. 2 A [self-confident] fool has no delight in understanding but only in revealing his personal opinions and himself.

What we display before others gives an account of what is in our heart!  Yes it involves those personal opinion and himself! Whether we give out of love to give the life and love of God to others or we give out of self-confidence in ourselves and the value we place on ourselves above others and God. It will certainly show up in the family home while growing up from a baby to a young adult. If you watched any television news this week, you have most likely seen it. It is something that will be revealed in a marriage when trouble knocks on the door! It will appear when down-sizing of a corporation that you worked at for many years. Now from scripture we are told in Numbers 1:3 that those "from twenty years old and above---all who are able to go to war in Israel. Numbers 14:29-32 marks those twenty years as accountable to being rebels, those who are counted as sinners! V. 29 The carcasses of you who have complained against Me shall fall in this wilderness, all of you who were numbered, according to your entire number, from twenty years old and above.
What is revealed to us that accountability is at the age of 20 years! Certainly that spirit within those who is talked about in this passage are those who had no heart toward God or obeying Him. And it is God who calls on us to be devoted and to worship Him that we might move in Him by faith that He is faithful.

Harmony had appeared on earth in the Garden of Eden, but for a short time. God and Man communicated. The commands of God were given and Man complied. Yet as the population grew, what was harmonious turned into that which corrupted Eden. What the adversary did was to tarnish the Image of God in that place and still today, we find that very thing appearing, not only in business meetings, but also in public squares and council meetings.

We are told in Proverbs 9:9-12 Amplified Bible 9 Give instruction to a wise man and he will be yet wise; teach a righteous man (one upright and right standing with ) and he will increase in learning. 10 The reverent and worshipful fear of the Lord is the beginning (the chief and choicest part) of Wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is insight and understanding. 11 For by me [ Wisdom from God] your days shall be multiplied, and the years of your life shall be increased. 12 If you are wise, you are wise for yourself; if you scorn, you alone will bear it and pay the penalty.
If you take on a new job, a new position or other, you still have to receive the instructions of that which is new to you. We must pay attention to what they, the new boss or executive desires. Certainly you should be educated to that job that is to be performed, still we must have a heart to receive instruction to how the position you now have fits and flows with other moving parts and positions in the new work environment.
 If one is expecting to be paid for their work, then they should desire to not appear slack. Although the appearance today appears to be about doing as less work possible but still gain that check at the time end of the time period. I remember the day when “journalists’ actually went out to find out what was going on in the world. Today there are many who just make things up on hearsay! Now that is just a lazy person who will not make the effort to live as God intended us to live!

But in truth, we must have and know truth that brings many days of life to us. In thinking on the miraculous gift of the Cross we must know what the Father’s heart was in sending Jesus to die for us. And the very core of that Christ died was and is today for us is that we would die to ourselves and the very life and light of Christ would live on through us, yes through you and me!
Just like appearing on your first day of the new job or position, you would not appear to tell the boss or CEO what your desires are for that work nor while you are there. The very same is that we do not live to tell Father God what He must do for "us" this day, but be so glad to hear what He desires for me to do for His glory of that in His Son Jesus Christ. We must celebrate He was mindful of us to send us His very best indeed!

So many today are demanding their own rights and their entitlements. There are no entitlements. Social Security is not entitlement, it is what was paid in from those working and paying their taxes for decades. The real truth for everyone: Get a job! And then be the "one" who keeps a regular working schedule and in about 35-40 years you can retire if you need to, you can certainly draw on that which you saved along the way of life in working. 

Certainly things change for companies, whether creating power, manufacturing certain products or even the forces that deliver those products to your home, but we as a people are to work together like the harmony that had begun in the Garden of Eden. And if an adversary appears, we must be those to pray and ask the Holy Spirit how to continue forward in love for the person we work with but also know how we keep to His commands so that we are not accepting or approving that which is wrong in God ‘s sight!
In remembering those choose to be greedy for gain, they choose less quality but more quantity so they make more money quickly. If our hearts pursue gain, is it for our glory, for our own name to make some ground with those of influence in a short amount of time? Truly being honest is speaking truth in all arenas of our lives! It is one standing to honor God in the avenues of life where we choose daily whom we will serve.

There is a day coming when man or woman will have to leave business at the door with understanding that time is short and without an open heart to God, then we fall short and without Him entirely. My prayer would be that people would be open to hear the good news of life eternally that gives honor and glory to God only. There is coming a day when one will be asked to give up their old life for that which brings life and not the deadly path so many encounter today.

If God did not allow King David to build the Temple because he was a man of war, how much so in our time for those who go to the HOUSE of God? How much more today should we find our full attention given to Him Who gives life?  For where our heart is, there is where we will go for an eternity! For what we treasure, that is that which holds maybe in not such a good place, but never the less, the place we treasure and hold onto is where our heart will lead us.

Jesus saw the Temple where God would come, and was seeing the day when the Holy Spirit would come to abide and comfort each individual on earth. His interest was in maintaining that which was holy unto the Lord and represent His Father on earth. Jesus’ heart was for Mankind. He was not about buying, trading and selling, but about having worship toward God. It was about employing prayer and relationship with God the Father. God's house in us is to be a house of prayer. It was for all men and women to hear and speak to God in prayer. If people would only come there with a humble heart, then there would be no need of war anymore! Spend time to know what is in the Father’s heart. Follow His commands to live for Him and not accept or approve that which He forbids!

Certainly the Flood should point many away from perverse behavior, still the Father did say He would not Flood the earth again and put the rainbow in the sky as His promise to us. Still, Jesus talks of the seven churches in the book of Revelation.  The church at Laodicea had no commendations, they were indifferent to what was going on around them and His instruction to them was to be zealous and repent! Of the church at Sardis, that some were commended that they had kept the faith, it was a dead church and they needed to repent and strengthen what remained. For Pergamos, the commendation was to keep the faith of Christ, the criticism was that they tolerated immorality, idolatry, and heresies and they were told to repent. Ephesus no longer held a fervent love for Christ, but they had rejected evil, persevered with patience. Their instruction was to “do the works you did at first”.

Jesus tells each church this: “He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches”. We are to hear what the Spirit speaks and especially in these days when many are turning a deaf ear to those with agendas to serve the flesh and not the living God who promises eternal life with His Son. In knowing our Father is Spirit, might we be keeping time to keep the spiritual of God alive in our hearing so we not take a step into that which is a death chamber of horrors to where there is no end? Do not accept or approve what God forbids!

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Monday, June 17, 2019

Remembering the Still Small Voice


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Was thinking of Elijah in the cave? He was running from the defiant Queen Jezebel, from what he thought was a broken covenant and rebellion in the extreme within the territory he called home. He had faced the false prophets of Baal. And even had them executed but there still remained other false prophets within Queen Jezebel’s palace.
Doing that “thing” for God brought Elijah to a low place. Some say it was pride. But Elijah was asked a question. And does not God ask us questions. Jesus did to his disciples.
1 Kings 19:9 And there he went into a cave and spent the night in that place; and behold the word of the LORD came to him;, and He said to him, “What are you doing here, Elijah?” 10 So he said, “I have been zealous for the LORD God of hosts; for the children of Israel have forsaken Your covenant, torn down Your altars, and killed Your prophets with the sword. I alone am left; and they seek to take my life.
1 Kings 19:11 Then he said, “ Go out, and stand in the mountain before the LORD.” And behold, the LORD passed by and a great and strong wind tore into the mountains and broke the rocks in pieces before the LORD, but the LORD was not in the wind, and after the wind an earthquake; 12 and after the earthquake a fire, but the LORD was not in the fire; and after the fire a still small voice. 13 So it was when Elijah heard it, that he wrapped his face in his mantle and went out and stood in the entrance of the cave. Suddenly a voice came to him, and said, “What are you doing here, Elijah?”



And again Elijah responds as he did previously. Still within a refuge, the darkness of the cave can hide the most deep seated feelings of rejection and hurt. Now depression can be a physical problem like being dehydrated. And many things had captured the elderly prophet in his thinking. Did he adequately maintain his personal needs despite being occupied with a queen who sought her way and no other way!
The LORD did not reveal Himself in the spectacular events of that moment: He was not in the extreme wind storm, not in the earthquake nor was He found in the fire….but after all these astounding events, it was the quiet voice that captured Elijah.


In these days, one thinks that unless you are a part of the magnificent displays of a big mega-church then you are not with it, not a part of it, and have missed it. In these days, unless you have a platform, a mega name with many accolades, you have not risen to popularity that the world seeks. And in these days, if you have lived as a married couple for no longer than the estimated  three years to some five together…but it is over now...….it was good run, a good thing and now move on!

One might be told to cheer up….or “good thing you did not have children” or “there are better fish in the sea”!
What….who is looking for 'better' fish…?  Any commitments to a spouse, to having a job in the workplace, raising children, or leading in other places like church, can and will have issues come up when dealing with people. In those are we willing to make a true commitment to them for without a true commitment, we can make a mess of things including other people's lives. We then come to a juncture, a point of dealing with yes, the devastating effects within our lives which will include, anger, hurt, and depression with other's but also with God!

Feeling anxious and irritable can take its toll on a person. And within this depression can occur, plus a lack of energy & including the appearance of one with the “feeling of inadequacy as a person, as a wife, husband or even a daughter.

What are the signs and symptoms of depression?  Well for the aging prophet, he was not motivated by the high wind storm nor was he motivated by the earthquake. Even as the fire moved passed the opening of the cave still the prophet did not come out! Frankly, the man called fire down from heaven and God did that for him! (1 Kings 18:38--it was rebuilding the altar worship to God)

So too, if mega has anything to do with it, it is possible that people will not hear the still small voice.  Is the Mega done in order of worship to God or to something else? Is it true worship to God...so that others can know the way at home without bass guitarist with the torn at knees jeans and FEARLESS t-shirt on.  And what may be presented as just a great display of smoke, bright lights and much too do about nothing....and the moment is exciting, but sincerely people are really hurting, really addicted to something bad and really need to hear HIM speak. For when God has anything to do with it, He will speak in the quiet and He will hear the response of the individual as He did with Elijah.  Again the prophet did not come out even though the LORD was passing by, it was only when Elijah heard the voice did he come to the opening of the cave.
God was not in the wind storm, was not in the earthquake nor was He in the fire storm!

Ever been is a service and they say the Lord is passing by.....? Hey, the Lord is in our hearts....!  The commitment Elijah had made was hearing God.
It is the same in making commitments to God, to a spouse, to the boss man who hired you, the commitment to serve maybe in your community or even church. The commitment should not be bells and whistles or on a whim as the culture seems to dictate today, but by the still small voice that speaks truth wrapped in the love of God, for anything else will only bring one's life to a situation loaded with depression, no sleep, and most likely some anger and frustration! 

In making the commitment to God one is motivated by the voice of God: it is hearing Him speak love, peace, truth and grace! It is in the relationship of marriage one finds a hit at the commitment place, the point where two were committed with one thought to be together as the sun shone, in good and bad, in strength and weakness, old age too, where each day, each year, and each season is not measured in the mega, but in the still small moments. 

It is in those moments of taking each others hand and walk for an hour or two with no other thought than being together. To be committed to give each other time to speak, to laugh, and to enjoy those precious times of communicating together. Communicating love, and maybe pain. Communicating hope with tears. For when two people marry it is about the quiet part of the service where the minister will ask if anyone objects to the two being wed! And in the next moment it turns to the two facing each other, do you take this person?


For this person who writes this: my view was to be about knowing the best things for my husband's health. I was always wanting him to remain strong and healthy as the day we were wed. And with the Holy Spirit as our guide we can see our path directed toward good health.
My view was to be the best companion for life I could be to my husband.
I would like to say that I did not always encourage him in his work for there were times he seemed to be working much when our daughter was young and I thought he missed much of those great hours and evenings of her youth.

 On this side I see that he was learning things he needed to know where he would be working one day and from the perspective I have seen his dreams come to pass. I also today see us doing ministry together which has been my dream for over twenty years. Together we give God's word by Voice of Prayer and Life Giving Wells on You-tube. But I also see that together we are creative and confident of that which God called us to. 
As the praying wife, in the quiet place, I speak words out that declare what God has for him, for me and us together. Praying from the Lord's perspective His word is prayer is positive to change for each us, to continue to find the passion in life with God for that is the true transforming power.

99.99 percent of decisions are made were by prayer in the quiet place. Of the last twenty plus years, we never tried to escape what many would consider when storms hit a marriage. Commitment is always key and is regarded as being loyal to the one whether to husband or to a GREAT GOD. We each worked toward commitment, but at times we did not occupy thought and prayer always in the same manner. In that you will find the one who prays and speaks......to seek the Father's favor on this union blessed by God. But both at some point must come back together to face the weakness and to understand the strength is always in God Himself.



 In the re-commissioning of the prophet the quiet voice was needed. In the truth of the word of God, blessings come to those who believe it. And Elijah is told to anoint three people and each one was as an agent of the coming divine judgment or blessing of Israel.  He was to call Hazael of Syria to perform in Israel 2 Kings 8:12 ..... And Hazael said, "Why is my lord weeping?" He answered, "Because I know the evil that you will do to the children of Israel: Their strongholds you will set on fire, and their young men you will kill with the sword; and you will dash their children, and rip open their women with child. 
 & 2 Kings 10:32-36…He was to call Jehu….2 Kings 9:1-10 And Elisha …Elijah’s successor…1 Kings 19:17


Elijah recognized the LORD'S voice. In his times of prayer, he sought to hear....and in all his doing for the LORD, Elijah at some point became captive to or overwhelmed by other voices. We must always come back to speaking ...that talking & conversing with the Lord ...not merely to Him but to where we hear Him ask us a question like He did with Elijah!  Did you hear God today? He still speaks!
 We can see the mega of God ....when we..look up at the starlight sky on a summer night and see a star sailing across with out regard to its end, watch the stretch of a newborn baby with clenched fist reach out when he cries and in these, we hold GOD to be great, with a heart that gives, and knows us all. And in that we remain anchored to His strength, to be effective to giving Him praise for His glory.....understanding His voice speaking into our situation, is Him speaking His power and majesty. (Psalm 29:4) 
For that which is above us....that moves without our control on it....so too, the tiny baby expresses the tiniest of cries, but tugs the greatest heart of all. For the Father knows those who are His. For without Him, we can do nothing. And with HIM...all things are possible that are of God and to His praise forever. Amen.
You cannot hear God if you are bouncing around like a 'red rubber ball'. Take a break from the culture of your land. Hear Him today in the quiet. Hear Him today as He leads....you will be most certainly glad you did.





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Wednesday, March 20, 2019

ENGAGED



Christ and His Church
Matthew 22:37-40  NKJV  37 Jesus said to him, "'You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.' 38 This is the first and great commandment.  39  And the second is like it: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' 40  On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets."

Jesus told us two principles: love toward God (Deut. 6:5) and love toward our neighbor (Leviticus 19:18) In remembering those early years of Sunday School and our Mrs. Taylor, I remember the love she spoke with when referring us back to the commandments of God. I remember how she gave Scripture and spoke of Moses walk up that mountain to wait diligently on God, to hear and carry down those wonderful words that God prepared for His people.
Mrs. Taylor would take those commands of us and reveal the importance of them for our lives. In those listed as the first four, we find the “relationship’ with God and the last six commands dealt with yes, the relationship with “the fellow man”.

For those who find friendship engaging, will find devotion time with God like a real workout indeed! Finding that time, yes the quiet, is sometimes hard to locate in any one day. Still to know someone, you must remove some things and people from your life to make room for the new person.

In coming into a major year of marriage UNION for my husband and myself, I find I still seem to know so little of him. I ask questions and even ask what I might should know of what would be on his mind for that moment or day or what his day was actually like without trying to read his facial expressions.
Sometimes I can calculate by hearing his voice if it was a fruitful day for him and those around him.

 Relationship always involves other people. We find that in regard to the relationship of Christ and His church.
Revelation 21:1-4  Then I saw a new sky (heaven) and a new earth, for the former sky and former earth had passed away (vanished), and there no longer existed any sea. (Isa 65:17)  2 And I saw the holy city, the new Jerusalem, descending out of heaven from God, all arrayed like a bride beautified and adorned for her husband;  3 Then I heard a mighty voice from the throne and I perceived its distinct words, saying, saying, See! The abode of God is with men, and He will live (encamp, tent) among them; and they shall be His people and God shall personally be with them and be their God. (Ezekiel 37:27) 4 God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; and death shall be no more, neither shall there be anguish (sorrow and mourning) nor grief nor pain any more, for the old conditions and the former order of things have passed away. (Isaiah 25:8; Isaiah 35:10)


For us we are in the period preceding what we find in Revelation 19:7-9. Amplified Bible states: Let us rejoice and shout for joy[ exulting and triumphant]! Let us celebrate and ascribe to Him glory and honor, for the marriage of the Lamb [at last] has come, and His bride has prepared herself.  (Psalm 118:24)  8 She has been permitted to dress in fine (radiant) linen, dazzling and white-----for the fine linen is (signified, represents,) the righteousness (the upright, just and godly living, deeds and conduct and right standing with God) of the saints ( God’s holy people). 9 Then the [angel] said to me, Write this down: Blessed (happy, to be envied) are those who are summoned (invited ,called) to the marriage supper of the Lamb. And he said to me [further], these are the true words (the genuine & exact declarations) of God.

If I had to have had a regular time of meeting with the man I was betrothed to, would not we need the regular meeting time to get to know one another AS WITH CHRIST?
 Amos 3:3 asks the question, “Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?” YOU certainly have to meet with your betrothed more than once a week. Our meetings must take place often, especially in regard to the Husband to His Church.
I like the amplified Bible for this verse: Do two walk together except they make an appointment and have agreed?

In our own planning, my future husband was going away to start his education in this city. Fall rolled around and he was off!  So when the wedding date came around in the winter, all the plans were made, all things in place to be married and to make the final move to an area new to us both. We then had evenings together, meals to plan and future things to consider!

I know of married couples  and each still have their times out with their girl friends and the husband with his friends. Seems like it should be that which regards the marriage unit of a couple to meet with other couples, right? Each of us as an individual had come into a relationship where two are considered and not just one merely choosing their “free time” to be with friends or making plans for a trip with girl friends.

When I considered marriage, did I consider it a serious matter? Did I look at what we had together in fellowship and what topics we had enjoyed as “that couple”? Because as the New Year began, we began as the couple who assembled together for the ride to the grocery store, the ride over to the shopping center, we assembled together for entertainment and even paying taxes!
So in consideration that being the Church, being married to our Husband who is God, do we see the importance at the spiritual level to be a part of what is His plan?
For me, I can only speak of what I ask Him for those I am seeking to pray for….as early this morning and seeing some men in a dangerous place. I ask for His knowledge and how I might pray for them and then I prayed. I even got agreement with my husband for those men's safety in the workplace! When my husband is home  and we have our quiet time, we pray together, some evenings we have scripture that we read over and talk about. We have times while just taking a ride over the mountain & within conversation discover that we had the same conversations with God just the day before!

I am still learning much of my husband’s heart, his humor and his pain. I continue to ask him questions maybe when he is not ready, but in truth we expect to be a part of each other’s lives for a very long time. If we know eternity is on the line, will we seek that time to know Him even more?
I am thankful for Mrs. Taylor….may she rest in peace ……for I will see her lovely face and remind her one day of those important things she gave to me and my dad when we both sat before her in that Sunday School class! I will remind her of those important commands that we love God and we love our neighbor!




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